𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐨𝐮𝐭, 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐝…
When people tell me they don’t like to set goals because they don’t want to be disappointed it breaks my heart a little bit.
Because i know that the deeper reason for this is that usually in the past they simply did not do the most vital part of any goal setting process..
I believe that setting and meeting meaningful goals is one of the most self-empowering acts a human being can do..
It means progression into deeper aspects of ourselves, resulting in a deeper understanding of life and our place within it…
In my eyes, goals should never come from trying to acquire money, reputation or likes...
I only ever set goals with the intention of growing myself emotionally and spiritually.
𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐚 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐫𝐞.. 𝐑𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬…
Conscious attention toward the attitudes, meanings and decisions you made along the process that caused the outcome to not happen
Planting yourself in the mastery seat of your life, meaning making it an internal journey and never placing blame on anyone or anything outside yourself
Asking yourself: "what do i need to learn to make this possible for me when i try again"
Holding firmly the beliefs that “i can learn and become anything” & “It’s not a matter of if it will happen for me, but of when”
It's hard to not take it personally, we can be so hard on ourselves with this process!
Never go after goals that your heart isn’t invested in…
Never sell yourself to someone else’s idea of how you should live your life…
Always be true to your word, your commitment and what you’ll say you’ll do…
The fastest way into a depressive/anxious/low self-esteem state is to apply excessive pressure on yourself and to break the promises you make to yourself and others…
Never go after goals that your heart isn’t invested in…
Never sell yourself to someone else’s idea of how you should live your life…
Always be true to your word, your commitment and what you’ll say you’ll do…
The fastest way into a depressive/anxious/low self-esteem state is to apply excessive pressure on yourself and to break the promises you make to yourself and others…
Commit to yourself and don't stop until what you want is staring back at you in your life!
