Failure Doesn't Exist..
- benmcdowellcoachin
- Dec 29, 2021
- 2 min read
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ, ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐โฆ
When people tell me they donโt like to set goals because they donโt want to be disappointed it breaks my heart a little bit.
Because i know that the deeper reason for this is that usually in the past they simply did not do the most vital part of any goal setting process..
I believe that setting and meeting meaningful goals is one of the most self-empowering acts a human being can do..
It means progression into deeper aspects of ourselves, resulting in a deeper understanding of life and our place within itโฆ
In my eyes, goals should never come from trying to acquire money, reputation or likes...
I only ever set goals with the intention of growing myself emotionally and spiritually.
๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐-๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ซ๐.. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌโฆ
Conscious attention toward the attitudes, meanings and decisions you made along the process that caused the outcome to not happen
Planting yourself in the mastery seat of your life, meaning making it an internal journey and never placing blame on anyone or anything outside yourself
Asking yourself: "what do i need to learn to make this possible for me when i try again"
Holding firmly the beliefs that โi can learn and become anythingโ & โItโs not a matter of if it will happen for me, but of whenโ
It's hard to not take it personally, we can be so hard on ourselves with this process!
Never go after goals that your heart isnโt invested inโฆ
Never sell yourself to someone elseโs idea of how you should live your lifeโฆ
Always be true to your word, your commitment and what youโll say youโll doโฆ
The fastest way into a depressive/anxious/low self-esteem state is to apply excessive pressure on yourself and to break the promises you make to yourself and othersโฆ
Never go after goals that your heart isnโt invested inโฆ
Never sell yourself to someone elseโs idea of how you should live your lifeโฆ
Always be true to your word, your commitment and what youโll say youโll doโฆ
The fastest way into a depressive/anxious/low self-esteem state is to apply excessive pressure on yourself and to break the promises you make to yourself and othersโฆ
Commit to yourself and don't stop until what you want is staring back at you in your life!
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