Itโs easy to put up an image to others about what youโre notโฆ
At least then if they reject it the pain wouldn't be so bad, because it wasn't really you.
At least then you could still have something to fall back on.
"๐๐ก๐ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ'๐ฏ๐ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ง๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ข๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ" - Bens Journals.
What if you really gave 100% of yourself, to everything, to everyone, in every moment.... And it still wasn't enough?
What if you failed? What then?
Well the thing they donโt teach us growing up is that you only find the door to your greater self when you empty the room, when you've given it all away..
This dot of a moment is where we realise we are capable of more than we thought we wereโฆ This is where we grow.
You only let go of anxiety, depression and mental illness when you break out of the tight limits that threaten us with pain if pushed.
So until then, we stay small, inside the cage, avoiding the pain. Avoiding the discomfort.. Staying the same.
This is the biggest lie of the 21st century: I donโt want to experience pain, so i will AVOID.
Thatโs just the way it is in the world right now, thatโs why 90% of us talk about our dreams and give reasons to why they haven't happened yet and only 10% are living and conquering them.
A wise man once told me "๐๐๐ง, ๐ข๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ค ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ .."
It's about...
Being Willing To Stand Alone, In Order To Feel Real Connection With Yourself And Others.
Being Willing To Give Up Your Time, Your Energy, Your Toxic Habits, To Find The Fulfilment Of Serving Something Greater Than Yourself.
Being Willing To Swim In The Deep Waters, To Places That Are Out Of Your Depth, In Order To Learn That You Can Find Your Feet No Matter What.
If you've been 'trying' to navigate the process from $0 - 6 figures as a coach and are totally over it get a helping hand so you can get the results you know you deserve!
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